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I have a first date scheduled for this Thursday with someone I matched with last week. While I am excited to meet them, my nerves are completely taking over. I keep worrying that we won’t have anything to talk about in person or that they won’t find me attractive in real life. I haven’t been on a date in over a year, so my confidence is at an all-time low. What do you do to boost your self-confidence before meeting an online match? How do you calm your nerves on the day of the date?

Pre-date jitters are completely normal, especially if you haven’t been dating for a while. The best way to build confidence before a date is to lower the stakes in your mind. Remind yourself that you are not going there to prove your worth or impress them. You are just meeting a new person to see if you actually enjoy their company. Wear an outfit that makes you feel comfortable and confident, and plan a short activity like getting coffee so there is no pressure for a long dinner. I read a great piece about confidence building on Hily that suggested shifting your focus from ‘will they like me’ to ‘will I like them’. That simple mindset shift puts you back in the driver’s seat. Before heading out, listen to your favorite music, take a deep breath, and remember that they are probably just as nervous as you are. Just be genuine and enjoy the moment.